What about, we get hurt being referred to as freaks whose likings offend "normal" people?

LOL, so true. I've been thinking along your lines of "jeez, this is the same kind of discussion we have in this community every half year" and didn't feel like commenting on the debate alltogether, because frankly all has been said before. But somehow this sentence of yours has reminded me that I probably shouldn't stay silent even if the anger and hurt I read in your and other people's post is something I don't feel (after having had this discussion so many times I guess I just am thick skinned or something). But staying silent could be viewed as silently supporting her pov and I certainly don't. "Freedom of speech" obviously isn't only a right but an obligation and I should be standing up and be proud and everything :). - Sorry for the rambling here, thinking out loud and probably not making much sense *g*.

Good to hear you're all right and the situation in Brasil seems to be under control.

And I love the hotmensex icon (you forgot to make one with naked Bean, though. Just saying ;)).