I'm here because of waenelin post, where I was tempted to leave a comment but i've had this discussion about RPS many times and my personal experience told me that you can use all the good arguments ("I'm respectful of the actors, it's my way to be a fan, yes i've asked myself the question of what it would be like to be slashed myself" and so on), if the anti-rps person is not tolerant and curious enough, nothing is going to change. Anyway, i just wanted to tell you that your post is far more interesting, and that i'm adding hotmensex in my interests list *g*